As we go about our busy lives, it's difficult to keep everyone informed! So check in here for the latest updates on the Freeman Family (Jeff, Ashlee, Misty, Elmer Fud, Lillee Mae, and Aiden Michael!)
Monday, December 27, 2010
A Christmas Story
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
Oh no! He's on the go!
Friday, December 3, 2010
It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year!
Christmas is by far mine and Jeff's favorite season of the year - the music, smells, lights, sights, giving, etc. - all of it is just beautiful! We plan on spending this first Christmas as a new family enjoying every single moment there is to enjoy! Just picture everything there is... beautiful lights lining the city streets, snow falling and Aiden taking in his first sights of the white flurries falling from the sky, the music in the car playing all the songs we look forward to listening to 1 month out of the year, the tree lighting up the living room with its red and white lights... I could go on... it's all so beautiful! And to see the look on Aiden's face as he notices the new sights, sounds, and smells for the very first time in his life, it just brings a smile to my face each time! He is so inquisitive and everything that is new to him has him so curious and intrigued - it's so neat to watch!
A Bit Behind, I'd Say!
So here's a quick run-down of our life currently -
Aiden is almost 8 months old - WOW!
He is sooo close to crawling - he gets up on his hands and knees and rocks back and forth.
He has 2 teeth - front bottom - they're adorable.
He is eating 3 meals of "real" food a day, along with about 4 bottles - he despises his bottle. He only eats from it when he's REALLY hungry!
He speaks his own language right now - "mama" "dada" "baba" "nana" "lala" "gaga" "blahblah" - notice a trend? Yes, every word ends in the "a" sound. My personal favorite is "blah blah".
He continues to be a very peaceful sleeper - yay for mommy and daddy :-)
He is a mostly pleasant baby - he lets you know when he's not happy.
He likes to be with people and have human interaction - I don't blame him... being alone is no fun!
At his 7 month doctor appt. he was about 16 1/2 pounds (I think... my memory isn't what it used to be, so I could be just making that up.)
Jeff continues to do well. He is busy at work and busy with Search for the Christ Child at church. I'm very much looking forward to Wednesday of next week, when all of his obligations for church and Greenon high school will be over and we can finally relax a bit and enjoy this beautiful Holiday season that only comes but once a year!
Friday, October 8, 2010
Friday, July 23, 2010
Friday, July 16, 2010
Aiden's Unexpected 3 month doctor's appointment
Now Aiden is 3 months old and we decided this has gone on far too long! His attempts to poop were always accompanied by strains, grunts, a red face, and sometimes even a scream! So, off to the doctor we go!
This time, the doctor says, "Let's switch his formula." okay, to what?? "Have you ever heard of Similac Alimentum?" the doctor asks, "Have we ever?!?!?!" we reply! My dad works for the company that makes Similac, and he has told us many times how awful the shop smells when they make the Alimentum formula! GREEEEAT! Can't wait to smell those burps, huh??
The doctor also sent us to the hospital for some x-rays to make sure his bowels aren't blocked or backed up... those all came back perfect, with no blockage, and no backup :) I thought we were all going to get 1,000+ diseases from standing in the ER as we checked in! That place is nasty!!!!! And it was packed! Who knew that SO many people go to the ER at 7pm on a Wednesday!!
Anyway, we did as the doctor said, and put him on the ever-so-expensive, chemically predigested, stinky Alimentum formula! And lo-and-behold..... Aiden HATES it! He rejected it completely at first, turning his head away as we tried to feed him. After only eating 4 ounces in 14 hours, Aiden finally decided it was time to eat! And ever since, he has eaten 4 ounces at a time :) The other good news is that his bowel movements, for the first time in 2 months, are NOT SOLID!!!!!! PRAISE THE LORD!!!!! No more straining, grunting, screaming, red-faced baby!
Thursday, June 24, 2010
A New Chapter
However, leaving Dave Dennis isn't going to be easy! I have worked here off and on since 2004 - when I was in college! The people here are like family - through the bickering and nagging, we still find a way to all get along at the end of the day. I have also thoroughly enjoyed working for my aunt. She is an incredible boss and treats her employees very well (I may have gotten some special treatment - like weekly free lunches and ice cream) ;-) But I will miss seeing her every day! I've gotten very used to that!
My last day of work at Dave Dennis is June 30th - only 6 days from today! I will start my new carreer on July 6th. We're taking a much-needed mini-vacation at Jeff's parent's lake house at Indian Lake! We are leaving June 30th as soon as we are off work and heading up there for 7:00 reservations for all-you-can-eat crab legs at Captain's Point! Then, we'll be up there enjoying the sunshine and water until the evening of July 4th. We'll return home on the 4th, just in time for our first family pictures on July 5th! We're having pictures of Aiden (he'll be 3 months old that day) taken, as well as pictures of Aiden and Eli (our nephew who is 5 weeks older than Aiden) taken together! OH! And our first family pictures taken, too! :)
We're always so busy... but it's our life and we love it!
Thursday, June 17, 2010
10 Weeks old and 2 Month Check-up
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Aiden - 3 weeks old!
Tuesday, April 13, 2010
Aiden Update
Aiden is now 1 week and 1 day old... wow! Time flies! I finally decided to put him in his swing while he is sleeping and get on here to let you all know how things have been! Well, it's been rough... First, when we got home from the hospital I called my family doctor, who would be seeing Aiden, to schedule his first appointment. However, the receptionist informed me that she isn't seeing any newborns. I informed her that she had already approved seeing Aiden and that it is in my chart. So, they say they'll have to call me back. The nurse calls back and says, "I am so sorry, but the doctor has had to make the decision not to see any more newborns, and that includes Aiden, even though he was preapproved". I was devastated! I called my mom in hysterics practically, because who wants to have to find a pediatrician to see a baby in 3-5 days while having a 2 day old baby at home?!?!?! So, my mom calls the office the next morning and talks to someone she knows there. She told my mom that she can't tell us the details, but she said something has happened and the doctor has no choice but to not see any newborns. So, all we can assume is that someone is suing her for something with their newborn... which is SO sad, because she is the most amazing doctor EVER! So, my mom told me of a pediatrician group by the hospital that a friend of hers takes her twins to and highly recommends, and which they recommended in our birthing class. So, I call them, explain the situation, and they were awesome and got Aiden in on Saturday!!! (They have incredible hours! 8am-10pm weekdays, and 8am-5pm weekends!!! WOW!!!) Anyway, we brought Aiden home from the hospital last Wednesday. On Thursday night he was extremely fussy and would not calm down! I tried to nurse him and he acted extremely frustrated with feeding. So, we kept at it until Saturday when we took him to the doctor for his first well-baby appointment... turns out he wasn't well :( He had continued to lose weight since discharge and was becoming jaundice (Aiden was 7lbs 8oz. at birth, 7lbs. 1oz. at discharge, and 6lbs 13oz. at the appointment Saturday). So, they sent us for blood work to check his Billi Ruben, which came back at a 14.6 - not too bad, but still not as low as it should be for a healthy baby! Also, the doctor had us try Similac and told me to pump and see if I was getting anything.... I didn't. I pumped each breast for 5 minutes and had maybe 5 drops... literally, drops... from each breast. I was so frustrated, and a little upset with myself because little did I know that my body was denying my baby the nutrition he needs to thrive! I'm not blaming myself... it was just disappointing! So, we went back to the doctor the next day (Sunday) and he had already gained 3 ounces in 19 hours from being on the formula! They rechecked his Billi Ruben levels, and they dropped from 14.6 to 13.8! YAY! So, the doctor said we are on the right track for sure, and to come back in 1 week (we have an appointment for Friday). Needless to say, I was terrified - especially when the doctor said the word "hospitalization" as a possibility if his levels were too high. I was in tears in the doctor's office. However, God is good and pulled our little guy through just fine! His coloring is awesome now, he is eating like a champ (about 1-2oz, sometimes 3, every 2-3 hours... not as much as he should, but he's getting there! He's just a little thing anyway!) I'll keep trying to pump and see if I get anything... but in the meantime, we've stocked up on Similac! |
Aiden's Birth Story
On Easter Sunday, April 4, 2010, I started having some harder and more regular contractions off and on all day. They would be regular (like, 2 minutes apart for about 50 seconds each) for about an hour, and then they would stop for a little while. So, we went to church, had Easter lunch with my family, went to my mom's house and spent some time with my parents and my siblings and our new nephew, and then came home and went for a walk. We had a late lunch, so around 8pm we made some spicy cheese dip for a snack and then went to bed.
Around 1am on Monday, April 5, 2010, I woke up having the strongest contractions I had felt yet! I started timing them and realized they were very regular. So, I got up and walked around the house to see if they would go away - they didn't. At 2am, my husband woke up to go to the bathroom. He said, "Are you okay?" and I told him what had been going on. We got out the laptop and loaded up Contractionmaster.com and started accurately timing them. They were coming every 2 minutes and lasting for as much as 1 minute and 10 seconds. After a few of those I said, "Let's go to the hospital!" So, off we went!
We got to the hospital at 3am. They hooked me up to the monitors and said that I was 2cm dilated. After 1 and a half hours, the nurse came back in and checked me again. As she was checking me she said, "Well, it looks like you haven't dilated any more. You're still at a 2..." and proceeded to tell us to go home... just then my water broke! She said, "Ok, well I think your water just broke, so I'll go get you a room and get you admitted!" I was ecstatic! I did NOT want to go home just to go through all that again when the "real" time came! So, we all started laughing and got VERY excited! My mom was already there, so she made some calls for my dad to come with my younger siblings around 6am (it was about 4:30am at this point), Jeff called his parents, and we got a room!
Almost immediately my contractions came to a screeching halt! They became irregular and practically non-existent. I was so disappointed... but glad that my water had broke, so I KNEW we would be having a baby in the next day or 2!
When they checked me for dilation again, I was only at a little over 3cm! Ugh... so, the nurse started talking about Pitocin. I was very leery of this and told her my fears of the contractions coming too strong too fast! So, she sent my doctor in (my actual OBGYN was the one on call that day so I was very happy about that!) So my doctor came in and started discussing the pros and cons of Pitocin. I decided to get the Pitocin, but to only start at a 2 and if nothing happened, to only go up by 2 every hour (they wanted 30 minutes, but I said no!) So, they started the Pitocin at a 2 and almost immediately the contractions started coming back! They were regular for a while, but eventually started spreading apart. So, they raised it to a 4. That really picked things up and they came every 2 minutes and started getting longer and longer. They gave me some pain meds that did NOTHING for the pain. After a while I asked for an epidural. The nurse checked me first and I had already progressed to 6cm!
The anesthesiologist came in and did the epidural - however, it only took on my right side! My left leg became a little numb, but I still had complete control over it and I could feel every contraction on my left side! The nurse called the anesthesiologist back in for a little more of the epidural and he had my lay on my left side to see if it would go that way... no such luck! So, I decided I could live with the pain and dealt with it as it came... about an hour and a half later, the nurse came back and said that Aiden's heart rate started to decelerate a little (but nothing alarming) so she wanted to check me for dilation again because this could be a sign that I was ready to push. Lo and behold, I was 10cm dilated and she could see Aiden's head!!! (we were all shocked, because the doctor said to expect 1cm dilation per hour after 6cm). So, she called my doctor in and while the doctor was changing she had me start pushing! I gave about 3 pushes and she told me to stop because Aiden was about to come out! (She said I was pushing like I had already had 5 kids!) :)
So, the doctor came in and I gave 4 sets of 3 pushes, and out came my baby boy's little head!!! They suctioned him and did their thing, and with one more push we had our little boy!
Aiden Michael Freeman was born at 4:59pm on Monday, April 5, 2010 weighing 7lbs 8oz. and measuring 21 inches long! He has a full head of beautiful brown curly hair and a beautiful olive skin tone. He looks identical to Jeff, but he has my mouth. We are both so head over heels in love with our son... he was so worth every bit of heartache and waiting that we have endured over the last 2 years!
Monday, March 29, 2010
38 Week Appt.!
Monday, March 22, 2010
37 week appt.
Sunday, March 14, 2010
Week 36
week 35
Aiden has doctor!
I'm an Aunt!!!
34 weeks
Everything is ready and waiting on Aiden... especially me and Jeff!!!!!!
On Sunday, when I hit 34 weeks, we had a beautiful surprise and my nephew (Elijah) was born!!!!!!!!! My brother and his wife didn't know if they were having a boy or girl, so it was very exciting to find out that Aiden will have a boy cousin to get into lots of trouble with! It was so cute - when I was holding Elijah, Aiden started kicking him! I said, "They're playing rough already!" It was so special to be there to hold my beautiful nephew so soon after his birth! It was definitely worth the 8 hour wait in the waiting room... which I'm sure was nothing compared to the 11 hour labor my SIL was enduring while we were all having a good old time in the waiting room ;-) But I hear she did awesome, and I hope my delivery is just as great!!! (And that Aiden is just as beautiful as Elijah! - though they're bound to look NOTHING alike because he is dark skinned and has curly jet-black hair! I don't think that unless Aiden gets my mom's genes that I am capable of producing such a baby with mine and Jeff's fair skin and hair!)
At my appointment we were able to schedule the rest of my doctor's appointments. They will be March 16, March 22, March 29, and April 5th! They didn't schedule one for April 12th since my due date is April 11th. I hope this is a good sign that we won't need an appointment that week!!!
33 Weeks
This week's goal is to pack the bag for the hospital. I want to have it done by Sunday, when I will be 34 weeks! I have my list made and everything (mostly) is bought on the list, so now we just have to put it together!
This past weekend we bought everything that we still needed to buy for Aiden! We got his carseat and extra base, cradle sheets, a gate for the nursery door, another coming home outfit (in 0-3 month size), 2 Halo Sleep Sacks, and some more hangers. I think that was it... we opted not to buy a clothing hamper, and just use a small wicker laundry basket I've had laying around for ages.
Our next doctor's appointment is Monday, March 1st!
Slacking...
Saturday, February 20, 2010
I might be crazy...
Week 32
Only 50 days to go from today... We continued our birthing classes this week (cancelled last week because of snow). This session included much information!!! We learned about induction, the stages of labor and what we may feel like emotionally during the stages, and some more breathing techniques for the different stages of labor. Then we got to watch this lovely video from the 80s (seriously, the baby born in it has to be as old as I am by now!!!) of a birth! I was truly fascinated by this video! And all things considered, Jeff held himself together quite well! The first shot of where the baby comes out kind of freaked him out a bit, but he pulled himself together and got over it ;-) We also learned about all the different safety features of the birthing center. Pretty cool stuff!!! In our class we were talking about getting everything ready for the babies and how much everyone still had to do. When I stated that we were done with the nursery, everyone said, "How far along are you?" and I said, "32 weeks" and they were like, "Geeeez! You must have been born in nesting mode!" Lol. I never thought of it that way, but I believe I was! Our last class is next Wednesday! This is the one we have been SOOO looking forward to for some time now - the tour of the birthing center!!!! I had a doctor's appointment on Monday! It went excellently, as expected :-) He said I am good and healthy and so is Aiden! Aiden is head-down again, and probably won't turn breach again because his head is so low and he's quite crammed (I think he's gonna be a big boy!) Other great news - Jeff asked the doctor at what age it would be safe for Aiden to have his first boat ride. And the the answer - 6 weeks!!!! WOOHOO! We were planning on waiting til Mid-June or beginning of July anyway just so we knew it would be warm enough, so this is excellent! Now we get to go pick out an adorable little life-jacket for him! The doctor said to make sure to get one with a handle on the back in case he does fall in the water. Our dog's life jacket has that, too :-) Not that we could pick a 30 pound Pug made of lead out of the water with a handle, but whatever! It's cute, nonetheless! Our list of things to get for Aiden is now down to 6 measley items! FINALLY!!! All we still need is the infant car seat, and extra base, cradle sheets, Halo Sleep Sacks, a clothes hamper, and a swinging gate! |
Saturday, February 13, 2010
Week 31
Time is still flying, and I'm still impatient! I want to meet Aiden NOW (but only if he was fully developed of course!) It's such a great feeling to know that in less than 9 weeks we should be holding our precious son!!!
Our birthing class got cancelled yesterday because of all the snow we got and our county was (and is) still under a Level 2 Snow Emergency (we have about 12-14 inches of snow total... ick!). So, now we will have class next week and the week after instead of it ending next week. All that will do is push the tour of the birrthing center back, which I am SO looking forward to!!!
I have my last baby shower this weekend. It is the one my church is throwing me! It should be a great time - we've got some crazy ladies at my church! Lol. It's a rainforest themed shower, just like our nursery!
Speaking of nursery, all we have left to do in there is hang up the valences and buy curtains! I can't believe how fast it all came together! It feels like just yesterday we were picking out the paint!
Space is really starting to become an issue... everything seems to be getting piled into the office, which is the smallest room in the house, and the only spare bedroom now! So now that room is an office, scrapbooking room, and catch-all! We desperately need a bigger house, but will probably be in this one for at least another year or 2. I know that as Aiden gets bigger, so will his toys, and we really have no place for a toy room or anything! Unless we take over the back living room... that may just have to happen!
Also this week, my MacBook got a virus and we had to get a new hard drive. This is MAJOR bad news, because ALL my pictures from 2006 on are on that computer!!!!!!! My trip to Germany, 2 trips to St. Louis, all the events and trips with our youth group, mine and Jeff's entire relationship including engagement and wedding and 2 trips to Jamaica! Also, all the pictures of Elmer Fud and Lillee Mae as puppies, every Christmas at our house together, LOTS of birthdays and lake house trips.... soooo many memories. I have a lot of them scrapbooked, but not all of them. A guy at work it going to try to get the pictures off, but he said there's no guarentees :-( My poor poor MacBook :-(
Anywho... on a happier note... Jeff and I have haircuts tonight, and I am getting my hair highlighted!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ever since I got pregnant in 2008 I let my highlights grow out. I hate my natural color (too dark with my pale Irish skin!) so I finally decided to splurge and get my highlights back. Jeff loves my hair that way anyway, so he is in agreement with the splurge! So, tomorrow, I will be back to having beautiful hair again! YAY!
Jeff got a little freaked out...
Week 30
Aiden's great, I'm great, life's... great! It was a rough week with having my uncle's funeral, but we made it through. Now tonight (if the snow doesn't keep us away) we have to go to Jeff's aunt's visitation. Then Tuesday my aunt goes in for her surgery to remove her tumor. Lots of sad news in the family lately, but nothing God can't handle, that's for sure! My sister-in-law is going to be having my niece/nephew any time now!!! I can't wait to meet him/her! I just realized that I only have 6 more doctor's appointments until Aiden's due date!!! WOW! 65 days until his due date doesn't seem like much! I was convinced that the last 10 weeks was going to drag on and on because it's just a waiting game now that everything is ready. But boy was I wrong!! This past week has completely flown by, and here we are, almost to 31 weeks... only 6 short weeks from being term (which will be March 21st). We started our birthing classes this past Wednesday. There are 6 couples in the class - although one girl is there with her mom because her husband is in the Navy and is away right now. The instructor has been a nurse at our hospital for 27 years, and she was the L&D nurse for the girl's mom when she gave birth to her 3 kids! So cool! But the class was very informative so far! We learned about dilation, effacement, stations, and then went over some breathing and relaxation techniques. Next week we get to learn about induction, and watch a video on delivery. Then, the third and final class she said we learn about c-sections and we get a tour of the Birthing Center! I just want to skip to the tour and be done! Although, I think it's *kind of* important to learn how to give birth too ;-) |
Baby Shower #3
Saturday was my third baby shower, and again, we got SO many wonderfully adorable things!!! Everything from cute little socks and sleepers, to the practical, but totally cool things like the car seat and a bottle cooler! Now I have to get on the thank you's... Anyway, my mom took this picture of my sister-in-law and I at my baby shower on Saturday. I was 29 weeks and 6 days pregnant and she was 36 weeks and 1 days pregnant that day (but she could have her baby any day because she is 1.5cm dialated, baby's head down, and she's having contractions!!!) Saturday, February 13, 2010 is my fourth and final baby shower! I know it will be a blast because it's being thrown by my church, and those church ladies can get a little crazy ;-) P.S. I look TERRIBLE in this picture - pale, baggy eyes, etc. and I completely forgot to put jewelry on that day! Ugh.... oh well, the pic is still cute! |